Here’s to forty years of growth! As I step into my Forties, I find myself reflecting on the lessons that have shaped me. Life has been a journey filled with joy, struggles, love, and hard-won wisdom. Here are some of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned along the way.
1. Stop Fighting for Those Who Don’t Fight for You
I’ve spent too much time trying to hold on to people who had already let go. True relationships are not one-sided, and I’ve learned to invest in those who genuinely want to be part of my life—not just when it benefits them. Letting go of those who don’t value me has given me space for those who truly do.
2. At Forty, I’ve Learned That Life Has a Way of Working Itself Out
I used to think I had to control everything—every outcome, every detail. But the more I’ve learned to surrender, the more peace I’ve found. Turning Forty has shown me that trusting the process and having faith that things will unfold as they should brings a sense of calm I never had in my younger years.
3. Money Can Always Be Made, But Time Cannot
Chasing financial success is important, but I’ve realized that no amount of money can buy back lost moments. Now that I’m Forty, I appreciate even more that prioritizing time with my family, my passions, and experiences that bring me joy is worth more than any paycheck. Time is the one currency we can’t earn more of—so I’m spending it wisely.
4. Motherhood Is Hard, but Worth It
Being a mom is the hardest job I’ve ever had. It’s exhausting, overwhelming, and sometimes, I feel like I’m failing. But every hug, every ‘I love you,’ and every milestone reminds me that all the struggles are worth it. Motherhood has stretched me in ways I never imagined and has given me a love deeper than I ever thought possible.
5. Took Forty Years to Learn – Listening Is a Superpower
If there’s one skill I wish I had mastered earlier, it’s the power of listening. True listening—not just hearing—builds stronger relationships, deepens understanding, and helps navigate conflicts with grace. Now that I’m Forty, I realize more than ever that being a good listener is one of the greatest gifts you can give to others.
6. Marriage Is a Journey, Not a Destination
Marriage isn’t a fairytale—it’s a commitment to choose your person every single day, through the good and the bad. My husband is my best friend, and even in the hardest moments, I wouldn’t want to do life with anyone else. Turning Forty has made me even more grateful for a partner who walks this journey with me, through every season.
As I celebrate this milestone, I step into my Forties with gratitude. I’ve learned, I’ve grown, and I know there’s still so much ahead. Cheers to Forty years of lessons, love, and the journey still to come!
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